The Antidote to Over-Commitment

“If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.”
​– Will Rogers

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In today's fast-paced, hustle-and-bustle world, we often find ourselves caught in a relentless cycle of more. More activity. More achievement. More commitment. 
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In pursuing more, we often overlook a fundamental aspect of human existence: the necessity of rest and recovery. Just like a machine cannot function at peak performance without regular maintenance, our bodies and minds also need periods of rejuvenation to perform at their best.

But we are in an age where many equate being busy with success. And while technological advancements have made life more convenient, they've also created a culture of constant doing. Leaving little room for disconnection eventually leads to burnout, anxiety, and decreased overall well-being.

Life has a curious way of aligning circumstances that lead to periods of stress. Sometimes, these circumstances are unavoidable, and sometimes, we inadvertently do it to ourselves. Projects at work, family commitments, and personal goals can all converge and demand our attention simultaneously.

While it's natural to experience temporary periods of elevated stress, it's crucial to recognize that sustained stress can affect our mental and physical health. Just as machines under extreme stress can malfunction, our bodies and minds suffer when subjected to prolonged pressure.

The next time you're caught in a whirlwind of activity, try the following to bring you back to a sense of balance: 

Acknowledge Overcommitment: Reflect on your commitments and recognize when you're stretching yourself thin. Saying yes to everything may feel great in the moment, but learning to say no can help you maintain a healthier balance. The crucial learning element here is to say no early!​

Prioritize Self-Care: Make self-care non-negotiable. Regularly engage in activities that bring joy and relaxation. That could be reading, painting, hiking, or simply spending quality time with loved ones. I used to equate self-care with self-indulgence. While I now believe there is a tipping point, proper self-care is a necessity.
 
Delegate and Seek Support: Don't hesitate to delegate tasks and ask for help when needed. You don't have to bear the weight of every responsibility alone.
 
Practice Mindfulness: Engage in mindfulness practices like meditation to center your thoughts and manage stress. Mindfulness helps you navigate challenges with a clear and focused mind.
 
Set Realistic Goals: Break down your commitments into manageable tasks and set realistic goals. This can prevent overwhelm and allow you to acknowledge progress.
 
In a world that glorifies constant activity, remember, you are not a machine programmed to function relentlessly. The balance between commitments and personal well-being requires intentional effort.
 
Acknowledge and monitor tendencies for over-commitment. Prioritize rest and recovery to preserve mental and physical health. And embrace the reality that our lives demand both action and stillness to thrive.